THE KEY TO LIFE

CHAPTER ONE: THE KEY TO LIFE by Denyse de Berry

2010-02-06T22:29:00.000-08:00

1. Think it!

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves…
Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
Written by Marianne Williamson for Nelson Mandela speech

Have you ever just had a thought, a mere thought about someone and then they ring you or you bump into them in the street even though you have not seen them for ages?

We have all experienced this at some time or another. So what is that, we think of someone and they materialise?

It is the POWER of our MIND.The mind is not the brain; the mind is part of the unseen energy that is part of us. We as human beings are energy, a sizzling,
energetic ball of energy that moves, eats, sleeps and loves. We contract and we expand.

As our mind is energy just like the unseen radio waves, what we give out we certainly
attract back to us.

Therefore that is how we can be anything we want to be, simply by thinking a hought.
As every thought that we ever have goes out and mixes with all the other unseen energy waves. Imagine all these energy waves bouncing around the universe, colliding with each other. As a clairaudient I can hear some of these energies. They sound just like high pitched radio waves.

ENERGY
Who you really are is energy –
your soul is energy –
It is a ball of light.

When you choose to reincarnate onto earth,
the energy becomes denser and heavier to
work within the physical body.
Your soul is the truth of who you really are.

It finds your body tiring,
slow and cumbersome, so when you sleep,
your soul soars freely and lightly once
again among the ether to restore itself
The Goddesses

Therefore the first step in being what you want to be is having the thought. You have to first think a thing before it can become YOUR reality.

You may wonder how this thinking can make you appear physically different by perhaps losing weight, looking younger, being fitter and healthier…how this can make you a million dollars or create a loving life partner…or how it can turn your horrific experience around.

Well you first have to think what it is that you would like to be or have. Because if your mind does not know what you want, how can anyone else, including the universe?

You are probably thinking, ‘well of course I know what I want.’ But do you really though? I challenge you to answer that honestly.

The majority of humans go around and about life being influenced by their environment, such as their family and friends opinions about everything and anything. The media bombard us every which way we look from TV to radio, magazines, ipods and the internet making us think all sorts of things…but not necessarily what we really, truthfully with hand on heart what we really want.

It is more common for humans to think negative thoughts than it is to think POSITIVE thoughts.

MIND
Your mind is very powerful,
it could move mountains if that
is what you truly wanted to do.

To create positive outcomes in
your life it is vital that
you think positive thoughts

Even in your darkest hour
you must not lose faith.
Focus on what you truly desire,
not what is presenting itself
to you at the moment.

In the depth of your despair
think only of a positive outcome a
nd always give thanks for what
you have already.
Augustina

Please take a moment right now and go back to when you woke up this morning. Did you jump out of bed and say “Oh what a beautiful day this is today that God gave me”, or did you wake up and think, “Oh no another day”, and then pull the blankets back over your head and try to go back to sleep, to shut out the world for just a few minutes longer?

Unless you are an extremely positive person (congratulations if you are) then your first thought would have been negative.

And then this would have continued all day, from ‘oh it is raining’ to ‘no milk for my coffee’ to ‘I can’t stand that TV or radio presenter’ to ‘how sad another murder last night on this mornings news’…and so it goes on and on all day until back to bed when it is ‘thank goodness that day is over, I can now go to sleep’.

Combined with family, friends, work colleagues, media, even billboards bombard our senses today, when do you actually have time to think your own thoughts that are not being influenced by outside forces?

So as you see you may think you are thinking your own thoughts, but actually you are being INFLUENCED by others, all the time, all day, every day.

Therefore the very first thing to do to be able to create what you really desire in your life and your looks, is to have the THOUGHT of what it is that you really want.

Because if you don’t take control of YOUR OWN THOUGHTS and start directing the way you want them to go, you will end up attracting the very things that you do not want.

VIBRATION
We rejoice with great enthusiasm as we
remind you that you are the creator
of your own life.

Through your thoughts sending out your
vibration to the universe of attraction.
Like a magnet the universe responds to
your vibrational match of thoughts
and delivers that to you.

Think positive, you will attract positive.
Think negative, you will attract negative.
The Goddesses

And that very experience that is currently showing up in your life will only continue or get worse, if you keep focusing on it. So regardless how horrific the bad experience that you had and it still haunts you or you are currently experiencing, do not focus on it, never think about it, file it away, it does not belong in your mind anymore and only think about what you really want.

THINK, in your perfect world – how would it be?

As you are going to be and are thinking all day, every day, you might as will think the thoughts that will create YOUR DESIRED life and looks.

Thoughts are one of the MOST POWERFUL forces in the universe; they literally create your life. Think of your thoughts like a huge giant magnet. Your thoughts go out into the universe and are attracted as a magnet to other thoughts that are like your thoughts.

For instance you are thinking of a person and because they are thinking of you, bang the energy thought waves connect and then create the physical reality by bumping into each otherin the street. Whether you realise it or not you created that meeting.

THOUGHTS are SO powerful they create the state of your health, the way you look, walk, act, speak, sing, dance…everything first must come from thought.

As a swirling ball of energy with this magnetic force creating what ever you think about, it is important for you to TAKE CONTROL of your thoughts. As why in the world would you want to allow others thoughts about anything to influence you, when you have a perfectly good mind to think your OWN thoughts?

Here is a perfect example of the power of positive thinking.

As the agent and manager of one of my protégées Adelle Kenny, who was competing in Miss World in London.

At the beginning of the three week competition I stayed in London for the three days that Adelle went to Sweden with the other Miss World contestants, where part of their points went towards the final judge’s points.

I was waiting at the London Hilton Hotel for Adelle to return when she walked in looking sad and dejected – not her usual bright, sparkling, beautiful self. Instantly I knew I had to get to work and change her thoughts about herself.

While she was away for those three days with all these beautiful girls from around the world, some of whom where perfect in every way due to cosmetic surgery. Adelle felt she didn’t have a chance with her natural looks and that they were all more beautiful than her.

Which of course was not true, even though Adelle was the youngest contestant and completely natural in every way, she was not only tall, statuesque and strikingly beautiful on the outside, she was truly beautiful on the inside which always shines through in anyone that has true beauty from within. But she had forgotten that.

So I gently reminded her of her natural beauty and talent and reinforced that she is a winner and just as good as anyone else. The song that I used to get her to sing when I was training her and reminded her to sing again at the top of her voice in the shower to start the day of right was the powerful, motivating song Tina Turners Simply the Best!

I kept this up for the three weeks we spent in London, reinforcing her belief in herself – so she didn’t have time for any negative thoughts, only positive thoughts about how she would be as a winner.

FEMININE FORCE
Being feminine does not mean giving your power away.
Being feminine means being powerful, strong, loving,
compassionate and sensual.

Stand straight and tall with the inner strength
of a she warrior. The power to attract and
manifest all that your desire.

You are this.
This is your ability.

Enjoy your beauty, your loving heart,
your strength, your power, your sensuality,
your gift from God lies in
being a woman.
The Goddesses

The final night came as a glamorous up market event at the London Palladium. I was seated behind the judges next to Miss Venezuela’s dentist and manager.

Before they announce the final winners, Eric Morley announces the five winners from each continent. Adelle won the Queen of Asia and Oceania.

Drum roll…everyone holds their breath… then the announcements are made… Eric Morley announced the five top finalists out of 85 contestants. Adelle was one of them. I was so proud of her.

Then came the countdown for the winners.

First though the points from Sweden were read out for all of us in the audience to hear, as they were tabulated with the judges points in London. And that is when I knew!

Whilst Adelle had the highest points from the London judges, her points were low from the Swedish judges. Adelle won 3rd runner-up which in itself is an amazing achievementand one to be proud of at 17 years.

Nothing had changed from Sweden to London – except how she THOUGHT about herself.

“I and a lot of other people I know have always striven to become as successful, respected and admired as Denyse is. She is a role model and mentor to many. Denyse built up my confidence, made me believe in myself, encouraged, supported and inspired me.
Not only did she show me how to look good on the outside, hair, clothes, skincare, makeup etc
She taught me everything I need to know to succeed in life, that true beauty comes from within and that I have the power within myself.”
Adelle Kenny
Miss World 3rd runner-up 1990,
Beauty Queen of Asia and Oceania 1990, International Model

The power of positive thinking is very powerful indeed.

In fact it really is very exciting, don’t you think?
Now that you know that you are completely in charge of your own destiny.

CREATING IT SIMPLY BY THINKING. How wonderful. How delicious. What could
be easier than thinking, we do it all the time anyway.

God gave us this wonderful tool to create. So let’s use it and harness it so that we can be the very best that we choose to be.

We have all walked into a room and without anyone saying anything; you could cut the air with a knife.

So how did you know that things weren’t right, no one said anything, yet you could FEEL it? What you are feeling is the thought, energy emanating from one or more people in the room and if their negativity is strong and if it is combined with strong emotion then it will permeate the entire room.

However if you are equally passionate and THINKING and FEELING POSITIVE you can turn the feeling of the room around, simply by thinking positive thoughts which will change the energy in the room.

Alternatively have you stood in the presence of a powerfully positive human being, one that projects that indefinable X–Factor? That unseen feeling, but we all know they have it. These people totally BELIEVE in themselves and their powerful positive thoughts rub off onto others wherever they go.

LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE.
Positive attracts positive. Negative attracts negative.

So no matter what terrible, horrific, catastrophic thing is either currently happening to you or happened in your past – give it NO MORE THOUGHT!

Understand it for what it is – an experience that you had or are having. It was or is not a test or a lesson to see how good a person you are, it was something that you simply experienced.

That experience DOES NOT DEFINE YOU. It is NOT WHO YOU ARE – unless YOUR THINKING makes it so.

CHANGE YOUR THOUGHT about that experience from negative to positive – if you can’t do that then DON’T THINK ABOUT IT AT ALL - EVER!

It is past – it is over – it is gone – that was yesterday and now today is about creating how you want your life to be tomorrow.

Your past does not define you!

Whilst one fleeting negative thought won’t hurt or harm you. But if you keep up a negative thought for some time or worse still an entire lifetime because you have a grudge against someone (that you just can’t let go). Unfortunately you do not harm them, you HARM YOURSELF and eventually it will manifest and show in your face and body. Either as an illness or by aging you, these are very real physical changes both inside and outside of your body.

What you THINK, you BECOME!

Try a little test on yourself, first for one day, then for one week. Turn every negative thought you have into a POSITIVE one. You possibly believe this cannot be done, but it can, and it really is very easy once you start. It is like the game that Pollyanna played, ”I’m glad…” (In 1913, Eleanor Hodgman Porter wrote the children’s classic about ‘Pollyanna’ that received immediate praise and success. The orphaned Pollyanna arrives in Beldingsville to live with her harsh and dutiful maiden aunt. All soon feel her effect as she enlivens everyone with her cheerful and infectious optimism. The sad, the lonely, the sick, and the obnoxious all become enamoured of this girl’s enthusiasm and zeal. One young girl turned an entire community around with her POSITIVE thoughts and words).

One person can make a huge difference.

I have always been a bit of a Pollyanna (it was my favourite movie as a child), I tend to always see the best in others and the positive in every experience, even during the direst times in my life. It is one of the secrets to my success – simply being glad about even the smallest thing at any given moment, as there is always something, no matter how small to be glad and grateful for.

When you start to play the “I’m glad and grateful game…” you will start to feel so much better about yourself and your surroundings, and then you will quite literally start to see physical changes in yourself, by the way you sit, stand, walk and talk.

Also try giving up reading or watching or listening to anything negative for one week. Do not participate in gossip about others, do not read nasty tabloid style magazines, and do not yell at your spouse, the children, the cat or the dog.

Think only POSITIVE thoughts about everyone and everything in your life for one whole week, especially think POSITIVE thoughts about YOURSELF. Do not berate yourself for the way you look, or what you said, or did last week, last year or last lifetime.

I challenge you to challenge yourself, just for ONE WEEK; after all, what is one week out of an entire lifetime?

Others will start wondering what is going on, first they may feel threatened by all this positive talk, but then they will appreciate it and then they will see actual physical changes in your face and body,

At the end of this week, take yourself away for a couple of hours of absolute quiet time. Whether that is first thing in the morning before anyone else gets up or in the middle of the day sitting by the beach or in your favourite chair or late at night when everyone else has gone to bed. Simply TAKE some TIME for YOURSELF.

Then start asking yourself what it is that you REALLY, TRULY want in your life. The way YOU want to live, how YOU want to feel, who YOU want to spend time with, the looks YOU desire, what is important to YOU, what YOU want to achieve. How YOU want to live…this is YOUR time to simply sit and THINK!

Ten Point Plan

First step: Think it!
What you think you will become and attract

2010-01-30T19:23:00.000-08:00

The KEY To LIFE!
Unlocks the door to the truth of life!

If ever there was a time the world needed this book – it is now!

With many people experiencing personal and professional pain, tragedy, trauma and crises - through the authors experience and practical steps, The KEY to LIFE will guide you to recover quickly and lead you back to loving life!

Author: Denyse Saunders

The KEY to LIFE
Live the life you desire!

Did you grow up believing like I did, that if you were very, very good and did very good things for other people all the time and worked really, really hard and always put others before yourself, that then good things would happen to you?

This is what I always believed and that is what I did. But the strangest thing happened, bad things happened to me. So I thought I better work harder and do more for others and be really, really perfect at everything and for everyone – the perfect mother, perfect wife, perfect daughter, perfect best friend, perfect employer, perfect at everything and help everyone and never think about what I want.

But that still did not work as bad things still kept happening to me. Everyone around me was always shocked when they happened because they all said, ‘But you are such a good, kind, loving and generous person, you don’t deserve this. But you are strong and perfect and you will get over this thing.’

Every time I did get over that bad thing and every time I did turn it around to be a positive in my life. But they still kept happening… until I learned how to understand exactly why and what that so called bad thing was.

First the most freeing aha moment for me was when I finally accepted that bad things do happen to good people!

I realised that most people during their lifetime face a crisis or trauma or some kind of tragedy that we think we will never be able to recover from.

Then that is when I finally got, what I had actually known all along and in fact what my spirit guides had been drumming into me for a very long time, The TRUE KEY to LIFE!

Yes I had recovered from each bad thing. I had not allowed each thing to stop me in my tracks or to stop me from living life to its fullest or stop me from achieving and being successful. Because I actually knew intuitively what to do and then spirit asked to work with me so together we would help heal others souls, so you too would know and understand The KEY to LIFE.

There is total freedom in knowing, understanding and applying
The KEY TO LIFE!

My life, like most of us, has been the yin and the yang, the success and the failure, the love and the fear, the high and the low, the joy and the despair…

I have been a model, a makeup artist, a hairdresser, a stylist, an agent, an editor and a business owner most of my career - looked up to others and a mentor to many - won sprinting races and been in a wheel chair for months - had robust health and been at deaths door - compere, choreographer, director and producer of thousands of shows - have won and have lost - surrounded by hundreds of people clapping for me, I have felt the isolation of fame - rich and poor - owned my home and rented - travelled the world - stayed in the London Hilton and a shack in an isolated place- studied and gained diplomas in journalism and marketing - learnt about life through experience - dined at sumptuous restaurants around the world like the Paris Ritz and wondered where my next meal is going to come from - received an award for my success in business and stayed awake all night wondering how to pay the bills the next day - been on a cruise ship, in a dinghy and sailed around the Marlborough Sounds and drank the best champagne on a yacht in the middle of Sydney Harbour on New Years Eve - trained children, teenagers, mothers and grandmothers - tutored marketing, modelling and motivation - had a baby son, James who is now 30 years, lost two children, had a hysterectomy and now grandmother of 2 gorgeous little girls - been married and divorced and proposed to by a world known star- danced on the stage, acted in theatre, modelled on the catwalk - been laid up flat on my bed after a back operation that went wrong - worked 16 hour days for years without a day off and spent three weeks travelling overseas purely for pleasure - interviewed hundreds and been interviewed by hundreds - casting director for international film crews and a director of several companies - have three wardrobes of clothes and not known what to wear that day - published in a top selling marketing book and editor of two style magazines - trained many international models and runner-ups in Miss World - taught visually impaired, deaf, physically and mentally challenged men and women - raised funds for over 40 charities and managed my own businesses - had over 4000 employees with big glamorous offices and worked alone from my office at home - worked, partied and dined with television, sports, fashion and movie stars - a guest speaker for hundreds of organizations - a television and radio presenter - modelled and taught modelling - an agent to actors, talent, makeup artists, photographers, hairstylists and models - owned and successfully managed a large model agency and grooming school - fashion and beauty editor for over 30 years - courted by the media and vilified by the media - received thousands of lovely thank-you cards and letters and received one or two nasty vile ones - had gorgeous wealthy men ask me out and sat alone at home - been the only female at meetings and laughed and cried with my girlfriends - lost one of my close friends in a car accident while my son on the same day won the photographers shoot a cover Asia/Pacific competition at age 17yrs - worked hard for my money and had it all stolen only to have to start again – then years later made .... for something that was not even my debt and once again had to start again but this time much older so it was harder- lived with others and lived alone –
had many, many living off me for years on end - trained corporate men and women and taught children how to gain self confidence - sat in board meetings and attended many cocktail parties - judged numerous competitions and watched others judging my protégées - written 4 books and a regular columnist for ten magazines and newspapers - passed all my ballet and speech examines and failed miserably at debating in front of hundreds - worked with top model agencies around the world and produced more fashion parades than I can remember -raped at 16 years of age with a knife held to my neck and threatened that they were going to kill me and chased and stalked by some horrible men and have experienced the passion of true love - I am a vegetarian, an avid reader, an environmentalist and don't ever let me see you hurt an animal or a child - given everything I have to others and received some wonderful gifts - been loved by a wonderful supportive family and had my love taken for granted by others - prayed, meditated and pleaded with God - receive messages and guidance from the spirit world - experience unusual out of this world happenings that some may think are weird or crazy but are very real for me - walked through a snake ridden jungle and danced at Miss World - talked to native people in an Asian jungle and sat with supermodels - I have been up and I have been down but through it all I have lived, learnt and loved and still have a long and exciting journey ahead of me.

What I learnt early on was to turn each of the negative experiences around, so that I not only recovered from them without drugs, alcohol, smoking, over eating or self harming… I turned each experience into a positive – that not only helped me evolve, but often helped thousands of others as well.

Was it handed to me on silver plate? No!
Was it easy? No!
Did I do? Yes!
Can you do it too? Yes!

How do you come back from…
Being raped with a knife held at your neck and threatened to be killed?
Losing two babies?
Separation and divorce?
Having all your hard earned money stolen?
Having one of your close friends die in a car crash?
Being so ill that you faced deaths door?
Financial ruin that was not even your debt?
An operation that went wrong that left you near paralysed?
Public humiliation and media vilification because of someone else’s untruths?
Being lied about, without the opportunity to defend your self?
Extreme jealously because of your looks, life and success?
Being suicidal and praying every day to die?

How do your recover from any one of those experiences and live to love another day? I know, because everyone of those things has happened to me and more.

So, I understand why spirit has asked me to help heal others souls and why I have had those horrific experiences. Because in order to help others, you have to understand their pain, their loss, their grief.

The KEY is not to allow the crisis or trauma to destroy or define you and to see it for what it is, which is simply an experience.

What I have learnt through these experiences and through the loving guidance of spirit is that life does not always seem fair, or that justice will be done…for in many cases it is not.

But it is how you handle each experience. That is the difference – not that terrible thing that happened to you– but how you handled it so you could grow, evolve and carry on to become a better version of you.

The other important thing I have learned is that it does not matter one iota what others think, say or do about you.

People love to have opinions about others; especially those in the public eye or who have attained some form of success. But they do not know what is going on in that person’s life; they only see the surface stuff – not the facts.

Let them walk in your shoes for one day – then see if they continue to judge you.

Let them cast the first stone, who has not sinned. They can’t, because we all have (what we consider) made mistakes, or said or done things that we are not proud of, or wished we could turn back the clock to relive and change an experience and do it differently, everyone has skeletons in their closet. This is life - that is being human.

But none of this matters – it is how you turn it around – it is how you turn lemons into lemonade that truly matters.

The man who does things makes mistakes,
but he never makes the biggest mistake of all – doing nothing!
Benjamin Franklin

I have reinvented myself several times over and climbed back up the ladder of success after sliding down the snake more times than I can remember.

I have been up and down, but I tell you one thing, on my deathbed I will honestly be able to say, “I lived life to its fullest, I truly participated in life. I didn’t sit on the sidelines wishing and hoping it was different, I took risks, sometimes I fell on my own sword, but nine times out of ten I succeeded!”

This had nothing to do with anyone else, for this is my journey of self discovery, my journey of becoming a better version of me. It was not and is not a competition with others; it is me being a better me! Then in turn that assists other do the same.

The same goes for you, this has nothing to do with anyone else; for this is your journey of self discovery, your journey of becoming a better version of you. It is not a competition with others; it is you being a better you! Then in turn this will assist others do the same.

No one can take the journey for you; this is something you have to do for yourself.

The other absolutely vital thing I know for sure is that you are a very special person. You are a unique, gorgeous, beautiful being and God loves everything about you even if you don’t! (I use the term God for that is my name for the unseen energy that created us and we are a part of and all connected to, but you will have your own name, such as the Universe, source, light etc).

The other thing I know without a shadow of a doubt is that there is never any situation or person that is so bad that you want to kill yourself over. I have been down that road before – when a time in my life I prayed every day to God to please let me die as I hated my life so much. But every day I did not die, as God had other plans for me and I am glad he did!

If your life or situation seems so bad to you at the moment that you want to die – think again – because there is a way out and it is not dieing!

Ask, and it will be given you;
seek, and you will find;
knock, and it will be opened to you.
Luke 11:9

So if you truly want to understand The KEY to LIFE you MUST LEARN to like and love yourself and know without a shadow of a doubt that you do deserve the best of everything life has to offer.

I have always known The KEY to LIFE (I did not know at that time that this is what
it was called but I knew how to use it) that is what has been my reason for overcoming many debilitating experiences. And I have certainly had many opportunities to practice it over and over again.

Knowing The KEY to LIFE didn’t always stop these terrible things from happening - bad things do happen to good people – but knowing The KEY to LIFE did ensure that I got through them without killing myself, going on Prozac, drinking myself into oblivion, taking drugs to forget, abusing another or myself, gambling mine or someone else’s money away or smoking to calm my nerves…

Knowing The KEY to LIFE and applying it kept me calm, focussed, positive, healthy, happy, and loving (even through the horrific experience) with theability to let go, close that door and open a new door of opportunity to be the best that I can be!

The KEY to LIFE will show you how to not only get through the experience, but how to recover and move on from the experience. And more importantly how to turn it into a positive experience, regardless how awful and horrific the experience was or is.

Once you understand The KEY to LIFE you will not only get through whatever trauma life throws at you. You will embrace the experience and see its greatest potential which is the opportunity to change, grow and evolve and become a better version of you.

Once you understand The KEY to LIFE you will know how to use the unseen spiritual force to be, do and have anything you desire, that will make your never ending journey more joyful, happy, powerful, inspiring, uplifting and loving.

The KEY to LIFE makes it all so very easy once you know how to unlock the door.

This too will pass,
for life is fluid and
move forward it must.

When a crisis hit's you,
become still and breathe deeply.

Count your blessings and
be grateful for what you do have.

This is not a test or a lesson,
it is simply an experience.

An experience only has
the meaning that you give it.

You choose to see it as growth,
then that is what it will be.

If you choose to see it as failure,
then that is what it will be.

Only you can choose what
the experience means to you.
Augustina

INTRODUCTION
You want it, you can have it!
You can have anything you truly desire.
Look younger, beautiful, handsome, slimmer, vibrant, sexier…
Feel assured, energetic, desirable, fantastic, confident, courageous…
Be happy, healthy, free, joyful, peaceful, calm, powerful, loved and loving…
Have great financial wealth, huge professional success and personal happiness…

How? You ask.
By being the best of you!
Being the person that you truly are.
By being the person that you came to earth to be.
You may have forgotten who that is, but once you remember, your life will be all you want it to be and more.

It does not matter what terrible, horrific, bad experience has happened or is happening to you right now (remember every person goes through some sort of bad experience(s) to some degree or other in their lifetime).

We have to experience the bad to know what good is, experience fear to know what love is, experience sorrow to know what joy is, experience loss to know what gain is, experience anger to know what peace is, experience less to know what more is, experience pain to know what painless is, experience sadness to know what happy is.

Life will always be up and down; to believe otherwise is deluding your self. If you truly never experience any down moments in your life, then you are not living you are simply existing. And you have probably shut down all your feelings and emotions. Which means you are no longer in touch with the truth of who you are – which is your soul.

SPIRIT
You are a spiritual being having
a human physical experience.
You chose to have this human experience
at this moment in time to evolve your soul.

Your soul, which is the truth of
who you are wanted to experience
the variations of living in your
physical body even though it is
denser and heavier than being only spirit.

This human experience creates different
states of growth for your soul than the
freer, lighter, joyful and loving realm of spirit.
Augustina

Which is such a terrible waste of a life – for you came to earth at this precise time in evolution to grow and evolve. Your soul does this through varied experiences (good and bad) from which it can grow and evolve.

If you don’t allow yourself to feel every emotion through varied experiences how can you grow and evolve?

If you were always bubbly, happy and chirpy and every thing was perfect in your life – what would you gain from being here?

You are not your body or even your mind you are your soul that has come to earth in your current body and with your mind at this precise time to grow and evolve your soul – nothing more, nothing less.

So not to do what you came here to do is a great sadness and only means that you will
come back and back until your soul evolves until it goes home to God forever.

Human life was never meant to be a
series of tests we have no hope of passing.
Rather it is an infinite kaleidoscope of
opportunities tailored to bring out our innate abilities.
We are here to make the most of our life physically,
mentally and spiritually. We are here to experience
life beyond the limitations of being clothes in flesh
and blood, so that we can escape the endless
roller-coaster of hope and despair. This is the journey.
This is your journey.
Dr. Wayne W. Dwyer

So embrace every experience good and bad and see it for what it is, which is simply another experience for you to become a better version of you.

The KEY to LIFE step by step process will get you through these so called bad experiences with minimum distress so that you will come out the other side better, stronger and a more evolved you.

The greatest gift from any experience
is the opportunity to re-create yourself anew.

It is at this moment when you are on the threshold of opening a new door that you can create all that you desire your life to be.

TRUTH
The truth of who you are is a
beautiful, loving, joyful light
that moves with the speed of thought
that creates with the speed of thought.

You have only borrowed your physical
body for the short time you chose
to be on the earth plane.

Your beautiful light, bright soul
is the truth of who you are.
This never dies, it will always be.

When you are thinking positive,
loving, joyful thoughts then you
are honouring the truth of who you are.
Be true to yourself.
The Goddesses

The KEY to LIFE will show you how to open the new door to your new powerful, positive experience.

Whilst I personally receive much guidance from spirit and my writing is inspired from them. This is not airy, fairy stuff – it is real and it works – I am living proof, as are many others who have discovered The KEY to LIFE.

Are you willing to spread your wings and soar…if so come fly with me.

'Come to the edge!' Life said
'We are afraid!' They said
'Come to the edge!' Life said
They came
It pushed them
And they flew...
Guillaume Appollinaire 1880-1918

LIFE’S PURPOSE
Your life purpose is to:
Live a life with purpose.

For each of you that may be different.
So long as it is true to you and you
follow your heart and soul, and live
your life to the full, then you are
living your life’s purpose.

Do not waste your life wishing.
Do what makes your heart sing
and your soul feel alive
with the joy of life.

Follow your dreams, act on your dreams
and you surely have lived a life of purpose.
The Goddesses